They are almost always doomed from the beginning. The ones that do last are only because the couple makes a deliberate effort to see each other whenever possible and stay in daily communication.
Here is some handy tips / info when having a long distance relationship.
#1. You have to sincerely like / love the person. If you're not sure about them then you're just wasting your time and theirs.
#2. You have to trust them. This means no checking up on them, no being suspicious all the time, just let them be and trust that they are doing the same.
#3. You have to know yourself. Can you wait for love? Are you patient enough? If you're not the patient type then you are just fooling yourself.
#4. Are there any other barriers to the relationship apart from just distance? Watch for dealbreakers but also look to make compromises if you feel the relationship is worth it.
#5. When you are together focus on doing fun activities you both enjoy.
#6. Be virtuous. Don't be selfish, greedy or lazy. Let your lover bring out the best in you.
#8. Write and send letters via snail mail. Send along small gifts and personal momentos.
#9. Don't try to buy the other person's affection by send them outrageously expensive gifts. They won't be impressed. A wooden locket you carved yourself is more meaningful than a gold one.
#10. Eventually you will want to make the trip to visit each other. Let it be a mutual decision.
#11. Offer to stay in a hotel upon visiting.
#12. Don't expect sex if its your very first meeting.
#13. Don't be pushy or overly dramatic. That is creepy. Avoid anything remotely creepy. Stick to being patient with a dose of humour and wit.
#14. Always leave the other person wanting more.
If you rush things in any relationship don't be surprised if it blows up in your face.
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